Let Him Know You Struggle Too

If you don’t talk about your problems, others might think you don’t have any.

And, even though you might’ve found a way to see your problems as gifts, this lack of ‘seeming’ problems could make your loved-one feel alone, and cause them to see you as un-relatable.

Let them know you have a problem too….

…when they come to you with one.

Without putting too much emphasis on you.

Without turning it into a competition.

Say,

“Hey, I hear you. I struggle in that area too. Would it help you to hear how?”

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Lean in.

Let them know you care